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"Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." – Romans 12:17-18 NIV Growing up, I used to feel embarrassed about the conflicts in my family. But as an adult, I realized that everyone experiences family conflicts. I've never met a single person who didn't have to deal with family disagreements and arguments of some kind. The reason is simple: Families are made up of people! In this fallen world, we all struggle, and conflicts often result from those struggles. The good news is that God doesn't put pressure on us to have perfect families. Instead, God helps us learn and grow through family conflicts if we seek his help. Are you feeling stressed, frustrated, and discouraged from conflicts in your family? Throughout the year – and especially during the holiday season – you may find yourself in situations where family gatherings become tense or hurtful. You may even be excluded from family gatherings because of other family members who choose conflict over peace and lack the love necessary to change. No matter what difficult family situation you face, Romans 12:17-18 offers valuable guidance on how to respond. The first part of this passage is a powerful reminder. When you encounter the drama of family conflicts, it can be tempting to react with anger or bitterness. However, you are called to a higher standard. Resist the urge to repay evil with evil. Instead, respond with grace and mercy, seeking reconciliation and understanding. The passage continues by encouraging you to do what is right in the eyes of everyone, not just those who agree with you. This doesn't mean compromising your values, but it does mean being willing to listen, empathize, and make amends when necessary. In family conflicts, showing a willingness to find common ground can go a long way in restoring peace. Finally, the passage acknowledges that living in peace may not always be entirely within your control. Family dynamics are complex, and sometimes conflicts persist despite your best efforts. However, it's essential to recognize the part that you can play in pursuing peace. Your attitude and actions are vital. | 
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